The Woman to Worship Him
- Nikita
- Mar 29
- 6 min read
Updated: Mar 30
The Woman to Worship Him Anima Projection - Origin, Kinks & Integration
This anima projection develops in a man who, in childhood, had a mother who adored him excessively, making him feel like he was the center of her world. However, beneath this idealized dynamic, there was often an emotional imbalance—the mother was either unfulfilled in her marriage, emotionally needy, or subtly using her son to compensate for what she lacked from her husband.
When he grows up, he is often quite ambitious, always trying to live up to the expectations of his mother. He pushes himself hard. He chooses a certain type of woman to pursue and then subtly positions her to play the mother role - to comfort, adore and pump up his ego.
In many instances, the woman will come to understand how he has manipulated her this role, and she will resent it. She will stop being so soothing and reverential. He will blame her for changing, but in fact he is the one projecting qualities that were never exactly there. The breakup will be painful for the man, because he has invested energy from his earliest years and will feel this abandonment from the mother figure.
(c) Robert Greene - The Laws of Human Nature
How The "Woman to Worship Him" anima projection forms in Early Childhood
A Mother Who Over-Idealizes Her Son
The boy is treated as special, gifted, or superior in some way.
His mother praises him excessively and makes him feel like he is different from other men.
She shows deep emotional attachment, sometimes confiding in him as if he were an adult.
He learns that he deserves admiration and unconditional devotion from women.
A Mother Who Seeks Emotional Fulfillment Through Her Son
She may be unhappy in her marriage and seeks emotional comfort in her son.
Instead of offering unconditional maternal love, she may subtly treat him as an emotional partner.
She is proud of him but also emotionally possessive.
He learns that a woman should prioritize him above all else and fulfill his emotional needs.
How This Projection Manifests in Adult Relationships
He looks for a woman who will admire, adore, and prioritize him above all else.
He is drawn to partners who make him feel special, unique, and almost god-like.
He expects his romantic partner to revolve around him, like his mother once did.
He may feel deeply dissatisfied when his partner has her own needs, independence, or priorities.
If a woman challenges or criticizes him, he may feel deeply betrayed.
The Emotional Struggles of This Man
He often feels disappointed in real relationships because no woman can truly "worship" him as his mother did.
He may unconsciously sabotage relationships when his partner does not meet his high expectations.
He can struggle with deep-seated entitlement—believing love should come with admiration and devotion.
He may seek women who are overly nurturing, submissive, or emotionally dependent on him.
How He Can Integrate His Anima
Recognize that real love is about mutual respect, not worship.
Separate his identity from his mother’s influence and see women as equals, not admirers.
Accept that relationships require emotional give-and-take, not just adoration.
Develop emotional self-sufficiency rather than expecting a partner to fulfill his unmet childhood needs.
Jyotish Astrology & Anima
In Jyotish Astrology anima is represented by Venus, Moon and 7 House ( House of Parnter ).
We can analyse your Anima projection through 7 House and placement of Venus and Moon - grahas which represent feminine energy.
Moon is the graha which responsible for our connction with Mother and qualities we recevice from her, while Sun is responsible for Father figure in our natal chart, and qualities like leadership, self-esteem and ambitions.
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